Could have been really scary

As you recall, these next two weeks money is extremely tight. Consequently I have been checking our bank balances every day. This morning I checked to see if I could afford the extravagance of commercially made pasta sauce and discovered that someone has made a fake check/credit card and “swiped” fraudulent transactions on our account. Small amounts, but enough to cause me serious problems if left undiscovered.The bank closed down the VISA side of our debit card immediately, and now that I have gone and purchased my pasta sauce & gotten a little cash out, I am calling them to shut down the card entirely.

You just have to breath and be calm

when he is upset and it is hard, generally hubby is calm and Im the emotional one. But once you get a handle on where you are financially and start to work together to find an answer you can find something that everyone is willing to try for a month or 2. You can always adjust from there.Maybe your hubby needs a set limit of 10$ or whatever every week and you only give it to him on a weekly basis, Maybe he can handle all 20$ for the 2 weeks. It all depends on the budget and what he can do.